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I've been asking a couple of my friends on what to they think of backstabbers and are you able to learn anything from em?

All of em said backstabber suck, are selfish and irritating . And most of them said the only thing backstabbers thought them was not to trust even your best buddy, they're couple of em give a surprisingly different answers though. It's very sad don't ya think?

Personally, I'm on backstabber's side. wondering whether I'm one? well, you know me, you tell me. I agree that backstabbers do bitch about all of us but have u ever think it on the positive side? sometimes friends do offend friends without realizing it. Its probably some minor issue that offended your friends therefore they didn't wanna tell you off. They didn't tell u off aren't mean that they are please with it. When they did comments on ya attitude towards something I bet most of us will start yelling back and defend yourself. That's perfectly right, you have to do that. However they are your friends spare a second of thought for them, think after u yelled and defended yourself, think whether what they said about you was true. The hurting comments they left you thinking, most of it, it's likely to be facts. But in any case the comment friends gave on you , the impact it is limited. Friends wouldn't want to blast at you at such impact that you'll end up start cursing his entire family and eventually break the friendship with him.

Here come the part where backstabber is the good guy. They won't bitch about things that are anything to do with fiction, they won't, why? They wouldn't want to get exposed that they make up an imaginary situation of someone and end up receive a beating, do they? Therefore backstabber brags about the pure facts/truths which of course in a sarcastic manner.

All I'm saying is that backstabber aren't that bad of a person, they can let you know yourself better, on the contrary they might left you with a depression after overheard what they said, sometimes. Well, so by any chance you overheard people talking about you on ya back, go home and do some changes in ya life.

Let me define 'change' change yourself to be a better 'yourself'. Don't change until people doesn't recognized you. Let me state a few examples. For example you're kind, change to be kinder. If you're self-centered, change to be LESS selfish, DO NOT purely abandon ya negative self, keep some of it . The main thing here is to change to be a better 'yourself' not change to a holy person. Keep that in mind and people don't get you than so be it. you did change, people don't appreciate it there's nothing you can do. Even you changed to a 'holy person' there will still be someone wanna oppose you. You can't simply force them to accept you. Just like Satan and Jesus!


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